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SelfCybr
  • SelfCybr - Trusted Connection Support

    When the person you love online may not exist.

    Australians lost $139.9M to romance scams in 2025. We help families and individuals see what's really happening, take the right next steps, and protect against what comes next. First call is free.

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Who are you here for?

Choose the door that fits you. Both lead to free, confidential help.

Someone I love

A parent, child, sibling or friend who may be caught in something that doesn't add up. You need to know what to do without losing them.

Start here

Myself, I have doubts

Something feels off about the person you've been talking to. You're not sure. You're not ready to call them a scammer. That's okay.

Start here

How it works

Layer 1 - Triage Call

15-minute confidential call with a specialist within 1 business day. Red flag review. Three next steps. Warm referral to IDCARE if needed.

Free
Layer 2 - Self-serve tools

Image search walkthrough, red flag assessment, conversation templates, bank letters, reporting checklists, learning modules.

Free
Layer 3 - Active case support

Dedicated case manager for 60 days. Platform takedowns. Bank coordination. IDCARE liaison. Weekly updates. Closing documentation.

From $250
Layer 4 - Ongoing protection

SelfCybr+ membership. Monitoring for re-targeting. Quarterly safety check-ins.

$15 per month
​$99 per year

We will

  • Help you identify whether this is a scam
  • Submit takedown requests to platforms
  • Coordinate with banks on recovery
  • Refer you to IDCARE and specalists
  • Monitor for re-targeting

We won't

  • Guarantee fund recovery
  • Provide legal representation
  • Replace clinical therapy
  • Act on a victim's behalf without consent
  • Promise we can stop a scammer

In a crisis right now?

If someone is in immediate life-threatening danger, call 000. For free identity and cyber recovery, call IDCARE on 1800 595 160. For emotional support, call Lifeline 13 11 14

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